* these are suggestions that work for me, they may or may not work for you but you can try my strategy out, this work is very time consuming so understand that if you don't put in the hours you won't get results, it's not an easy job, it may not be for you, but you should try if you feel like you want this just understand there is a whole lot of sacrifice, you have to have a vetting process and protocols, as well as very detailed boundaries so you aren't exploited, you are in control of yourself in this feild, you can do this alone without a company doing this for you but be prepared to work harder then any job you've ever had
Come up with a unique name. Check IG, Twitter and on google to see if anyone is using that name. The name has to be one that tells fans what you are about. Use words that will lure the crowd you want in. A name that explains what you’re about. Once you checked if anyone is using it on social media and no one is, make a gmail for it. Try to keep all the names the same. So that people can google your username. You can prompt them to and they find just your links. Then make an IG, Twitter, Reddit, Fetlife, Tiktok, and the pay sites I mention to use. Make sure you take up internet real estate in that name. Set up a google drive for collabs where you will share content with others who you work with.
Make sure you think about a few things first. I wanna be honest and make sure you are well informed with the dangers. I was doxed so I know what they are. You have to be prepared for some bad things that could happen. SW is not safe yet. It’s not regulated. You can operate in a way that is safe. Which is digital but even with it being digital it still has it’s dangers. Stalkers can find you. If you aren’t making sure your name is not connected in anyway. Keep everything separate. Do not use your name. Come up with a name you’ll use to give anyone if they ask. Don’t talk about where you live. Or anything that can be tracked.
Do you want your face out there? You can do this without your face. Tattoos are visible and recognizable so also ask do you want your tattoos to be seen. Especially if they are of names that can identify family or friends. Custom tattoos are gonna be seen and people can point them out.
What will you do if someone recognizes you? Have a plan ready if that happens. People are cruel and use SW to blackmail us.
What if a family member finds you? Prepare for that happening. Most subs on our pages are people close to us. They find us and are creepy about it. So just be aware that can happen.
Make sure you are aware that half of our job is cyber security. We have to be up to date on way people can access our content and share it for free.
You also have to make sure you are aware that people will be rude and racist. So you will have to have thick skin. Everybody is a good body. Don’t listen to the ********. Incels are out there. They go online to hurt so just block and ban people. Get good at not giving a **** what they say there is a crowd for everyone.
Also other SWers are your friends. There’s 8billion people on the planet. Some SWers are out to hurt others in jealousy. But always repeat and remember that there is money to be made for everyone. Just because one SWer is doing great doesn’t mean they are taking away from you. Don’t steal ideas or concepts. It’s hard to stay creative everyday. If your in a creative rut ask your fans they are who is watching you. They will give you great ideas if you ask them what they want to see. You are making content for them not your peers.
Also the government is actively trying to ban us all. So make sure to follow SWer pages that speak on political issue regarding us. And share. We have a responsibility when we get to some level of power and influence to take care of our own. It’s the least we can do to ensure we are all ok. It’s not about our egos. We can’t get anywhere with legalizing SW if you are quiet for fear of losing fans.
Use your platform to assist in other communities like the trans community and queer community. A lot of us are disabled in some way. Also make sure to uplift the voices of our community who are marginalized. Support black and indigenous creators. Since those are communities that are targeted a lot.
Get used to deplatforming which is when platforms and apps ban us. I have been banned 100 times already in my career. It’s hard and sucks so bad to lose your hard work in one instance. Like nothing. I suggest centralizing your platform in places like Discord. Which allows you to do so much with your fans and everytime you are deplatformed you can have your fans follow you again easy. Follow my discord so you can see what I mean with centralizing. I have private chats for SWer support and tips.
https://discord.gg/WHhppjdFsp
To operate legally in this industry you must get an IEN which is for tax purposes. Use your username as the company. So you can report what you make since all these sites report. You don’t wanna deal with the IRS seeing money you can account for. You’ll have to register that you have an office which will be good. It has to be a room you use to operate your business it can be your room. You can operate without an LLC but if and when you can pay for one do it. With the same name as your username. You can file taxes. I set up a spread sheet to track all my income so when tax time comes it easy to just give to your tax person. You are a producer. That’s all you gotta say. All the sites pay you under a different name. You can use so they don’t ask questions. You work in Web3 if they ask because you do. You do E-commerce.
https://irs-federal-ein-number.com/?gad=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw2qKmBhCfARIsAFy8buIxl7hR5G19NydUZ-0OiYKJCQvF6OWQHSMVna5Dz-vVId0zB0P8GUaAk5FEALwwcB
First start with a link page to have all your business links in one place. Beacons AI allows you to have a media kit for sponsorships and for presenting in a very professional way to other content creators. It also allows you to see your stats and in’s tight which is important so you know who your subs and fans are and track their activities on your links.
https://beacons.ai/signup?c=fetishfairydomme
As for disturbing, I suggest skipping all the subs sites and starting one run by SWers. That is basically your own site without having to invest in a website right away cause that costs time and money as well as knowledge on how to run one which can take months to get down. Adultmembersites is very active on Twitter with their likes and shares so it’s good to have a company that backs you and promotes you. You can set a subscription price and it’s easy to navigate once you have played with the settings.
https://app-beta.adultmembersites.com/sign-up?logout=1&code=rfhSUYF
Chaturbate has a lot of people that you can use to gain a following. They promote and teach you as well so you can have an idea who is your fanbase. They are excellent to work for. You can easily make money on there if you treat it like a job. I can for 8 hours. Once in the morning and in the evening. You can just shake your *** on cam and make money no need to show face. Start with what you have and build as you make money. You’ll need a few things to grow.
https://chaturbate.com/in/?tour=LQps&campaign=cEOnX&track=default&room=killer617queen
- HD webcam with an extension cord so you can prop it anywhere. But use your laptop cam first if that all you have.
- Lovense toy, again when you can get it
- ******, **** plugs, **** machine
Lovense has an app you can download that works so awesome. And let’s you have cute applications and prints on cam
So your bio looks amazing I suggest using a site that creates a code for you profile that looks super professional.
https://designurbate.com/theme
You can make so much solo content to fill up all these sites. Take a weekend and pick out 10 outfits to use. Make clips that are 5-15 mins long. Jerk off instruction videos are a hit so you can start there. Cute outfit or lingerie, and be naughty talk dirty tell them how to jerk off. Wear lingerie and use toys and film it. You’ll need a tripod but you can also just prop the phone if you don’t have one. Use a self timer for pics. Make as many videos as you can. And take pics in different make up. All in one day. Then Monday and Tuesday edit and set up sites. Upload to sites. My schedule is Mon-Tues are my admin days. I use those days to set up work for the rest of the week. Wed I’m off. To have time to gather the spoons. This job is exhausting. Mentally and physically. Stay hydrated. It helps. Thurs and Friday I film. Then the weekend I am off or work if I want. The time off is important it will feel like groundhog fay if you don’t break it up with some self care days. Even if you do work go at your pace those days. Burn out can happen easy in this industry. Don’t over work yourself it’s easy when money is coming in but you are a human not a bot.
Promoting is key. Editing is 80 percent of the job. You will have to get good at being a digital artist. I use Picsart. I pay for premium. It’s worth it. You can remove backgrounds and add others. You can use their AI tools. Play with the app. To edit I use InShot I also pay but you can use Capcut. Adobe is awesome as well but expensive so start where you’re at financially and build your way up. You are gonna have to post a lot through out the day to promote. Sharing links and pics together. Video are best to promote. Make little teaser clips or gifs. They have gif apps. To sell. People like to see videos the most. Most of your day will consist of promoting. On all platforms. Daily. At least 3 times. But this is art you’re making so enjoy it cause it fun to make pretty promo pics.
Fetlife is a place you can post ads as long as you follow the rules of each group. You can create an account to share your actual kink life. It helps your subscribers feel connected to you. Plus you should have a space to share what it's like. Dad to day. An outlet. There are a lot of duds there but you can share pics a and videos to help promote your pages. Or sessions. Tour dates or collabs. You can find events for content creators and just be in the community that you can express yourself. You the site to the fullest on customizing.
Reddit also is a great tool to promote and find the people looking for content. There are a ton of subreddits and communities that are looking for us to promote our services and footage. But follow the rules
If you wanna offer sessions on video chat I suggest Skype. Skype has a sub site you can use called Skyprivate. You can sing up and it will make it so every person reaching out gets a message saying to pay you or go to your skyprivate site.
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You will need a menu. I suggest using a site to link to people with rules and a way for you to see who signs up and prompt them to have to give up some info like an email so you are vetting people so you are safe. I use Setmore. Look at mine for a menu that works with clear boundaries and vetting because I make sure they have to provide info on themselves to book. It also take away the back and forth. I can just link my menu and they can explore on their own and read my rules.
https://fetishfairydomme.setmore.com/services
Phone *** is a great way to do SW from home. You can create ads and record greetings. You can be on anytime you want. It's safe with your number and they make auto tweets that help on Twitter. You don't have to be good at dirty talk. You can gain a following on there just by listening to the men who call.
https://www.niteflirt.com/pid/296972
* will be adding more so you're fully aware this is just a start. Feel free to email me at FetishFairyDomme@gmail.com if you have any questions, I put this info out for free, if you wanna thank me for my efforts you can gift me items off my wishlist but no need to if you can't. Only if you can.
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